We make excuses not to love ourselves or take care of ourselves. Sometimes life is just too busy, we are too crazy at work, or always have to drive someone somewhere. I wanted to show you that no matter what the excuse, you CAN do it! Let me show you you’re worth some self love.
I Don’t Have Enough Time For Myself…
It’s also important to remember that if you aren’t taking care of yourself mentally, you’re not going to be able to handle taking care of everyone else, which makes sense but is much easier said than done. Sometimes I’m the WORST at making sure I give myself mental health breaks and that’s why I think it’s so important to share this with all of you.
At a boudoir shoot you are able to take a breath and slow down while loving yourself for a few hours. Think of what it would be like to rid yourself of all that energy you spend comparing yourself to others and worrying about what other people think of how you look. You get to see where your beauty comes from and removing that is huge benefit.
You need to take time for yourself, why not spend it getting glammed up and having an amazing time for once?
I’m Not Where I Want To Be Weight Wise…
The bodies you see in various advertising represents only about 5% of females who would match those measurements. Yes that’s right, ONLY FIVE PERCENT!
So what about the other 95% of women? Are you telling me they are undesirable? That they aren’t pretty? Hell No… sorry if I’ve said this many times before but I believe EVERY body is beautiful. Why do you have to be part of that 5% to have positive outlook on your figure? Well I have news, you don’t need to fit those measurements to be beautiful. You’re perfect RIGHT NOW! It’s not a competition.
Be proud of the body you have now and although I love the idea of using a boudoir session to reward yourself for a healthier lifestyle, don’t chase goals that may not be realistic. Some of my favourite clients have been the ones that came to love themselves for who they were at the time of the shoot not someone that they were 5, 10, 20 years ago. Have a boudoir shoot to celebrate who you are now, and then have another if you loose 15lbs to celebrate how far you’ve come. Love yourself.
I Don’t Feel Sexy Anymore So Boudoir Isn’t For Me…
WRONG. This is EXACTLY why you need to do a boudoir shoot.
Often times, women loose touch with their femininity or sexuality when life gets crazy because of kids/health/work. It happens and it’s totally normal and OK. A great way to reconnect with that side of yourself again is to have a boudoir shoot done so it re-ignites that spark. I’ve shown so many women that spark that I’ve lost count but each time I can see it in the way they carry themselves after the shoot. It’s a magical transformation that inspires confidence and a new found sexiness.
I Don’t Have The Money To Spend On Myself…
Yes, a boudoir experience Is an investment. It’s also an investment in yourself. You are investing in your well-being and confidence too! I do offer payment plans to spread the payments out a bit. What you get from a boudoir experience is so much more than just dollars and cents. How much would you value confidence, body acceptance, a new or rekindled sexiness or just a general appreciation of who you are right now?
I Have Nobody To Give This To…
You have one really important person to give this to… YOU! And I’ll be honest, you’re the only person that matters. I know you hear about women giving the images to a partner but if there’s one thing I’ve learned in the past decade of doing this, it’s that you’re not doing something like this for someone else. You’re doing it for you. Even if you don’t realize it at first.
What People are Saying
I Felt Like A Queen!
“Trevor and his team are amazing. The shoot was so much fun, and like I said above, made me feel like a queen. The encouragement and the laughs and the studio and the lights and the makeup and the hair… it’s all surreal. It really is magic. It brings out YOU and it’s so… boosting.”
One Of My Best Experiences
“One of the best experiences of my life! I didn’t know what I was looking for but after only one call with Trevor, I knew I had found it. From start to finish, the boudoir process was seamless, professional and fun just an overall fantastic experience. I would recommend this to any one of my friends.”
Every Woman Should Do This
“I was amazed at how talented and professional Trevor is. It was such a memorable, fun, and unique experience and that is all because of Trevor’s amazing work. Every women should take some time in their busy schedule to do a shoot. The feeling you have after leaving is like a high.
Our Core Values
- Body positive judgement free studio
- Welcoming to all genders, identities and orientations
- Committed to showing everyone the beuaty is not a measurement but a belief in themself
We like to take the time to talk to everyone interested in a session rather than just sending off emails. So let’s set up a time to talk so you can find out everything that goes into a boudoir experience with Provocateur Images